Saturday, May 7, 2011

Tips on giving a man a hand job

How to stroke your mans cock

Knead his penis between both your hands as though it were a piece of dough

Roll it between your palms

Stroke the underside with your palm as you press his penis against his pelvis

Make two rings with the thumb and index finger of each hand.  Place them next to each other in the middle of his shaft.  Gently pull outward in both directions at once. 

Make two rings (as above), but this time put them both at the base of his penis.  Slide your top hand up toward the glans, letting it come off the end completely.  Then replace it at the base and repeat the stroke.  The "ring" of your other hand should exert pressure downward as the top hand moves upward.  Keep repeating these strokes until he begs for mercy.

Roll or thump his penis against your belly, thigh, or face.

Press your breasts together and let him slide his well-oiled penis between them.  Occasionally, he can rub it across your nipples.  Or he can alternate his thrusting with sucking on your nipples.  Or while he's busy sliding between your breasts, you can stimulate your nipples yourself.  He'll enjoy watching this.  Or, at the end of each stroke, let his penis emerge from between your breasts and into your waiting mouth.

If your man has a high level of appreciation for women's bottoms, he'll no doubt enjoy rubbing his penis between the cheeks of your behind.  Lubricate yourself there and present your derriere from a kneeling position or by lying on your stomach with pillows beneath your hips.

Here's one you may like even better than he does.  Lie on your back and prop up your pelvis very high with pillows.  Invite him to kneel between your legs and move his penis slowly over and between your vaginal lips.  No penetration allowed!

The thigh stroke
Lie on your back with pillows beneath your pelvis, and press your thighs tightly together.  He should then straddle your legs with his and let his penis hang straight down between your lubricated thighs.  He can thrust up and down in this silken vise for awhile and then move in closer so that he rubs against your clitoris and vaginal lips as he goes up and down.  A more relaxed position for this juicy little game is one where you lie on your sides, either facing each other or with your back toward him.  If you use the position where he comes through from the rear, you can fondle his penis each time it appears in front of you.

His g-spot

For an extra little treat, press on his "G spot" while you're caressing his penis.  The area between his anus and scrotum is called the perineum.  When you press there, you are stimulating his prostate; for him, this feels similar to the way G-spot stimulation feels for you (woman).  Use your forefinger and press firmly and in rhythm while you stroke his penis with your other hand.  If it's comfortable, you can curl the other fingers of your pressing hand around the base of his organ, using them to keep the penile skin taught.  This sort of handiwork usually makes for a more deeply felt and longer-lasting orgasm.

And don't forget the choker method...... so you can try more than one or two of these in a single sexual session. 

The surprise
Surprise him by reaching into his pants and fondling him while he's reading, talkong on the phone, watching TV, cooking, or washing the dishes.

 OR

 Every man's fantasy is to have an incredibly sensuous dream about a beautiful, lusty lady making love to him and then wake up to find it's actually happening.  So sometime in the middle of the night, while he's sleeping soundly, gently and slowly caress his penis; stroke it, squeeze it, roll it between your hands.  Try to around his delicate organ without waking him.  When he's nice and hard, slide him inside you and make drowsily sweet love to him.


The sensuous gaze and stroke
The first time you see your man after a period of separation (even if it was only this morning when you both left for work), greet him with some bold and sensuous eye/hand coordination.  First lock eyes with him, "Look at me darling".  Then slither over to him, never taking your eyes from his.  Let your eyes tell him you have sex on your mind. 

When you reach him, gently take hold of his penis and start massaging.  Be sure to keep your eyes on his the whole time-fix him with your burning gaze.  Contintue stroking and eventually free his now-hard member from his pants so he can feel skin-to-skin contact.  Still keep your eyes locked with his.

It'll be up to you whether to finish this by kneeling down to take him in your mouth, or slipping him into your panty-less vagina while standing there, or backing away and pulling him with your sultry eyes into the bedroom.

The total tease
Start by stroking his penis into a state of throbbing arousal.  Then stop and truss him up, spreadeagled on the bed.  Don't touch him anymore, but instead fondle your own breasts and vagina as sensuoulsy as you possibly can.  Let him watch you writhe, shiver, and moan, finally exploding in a shattering orgasm while he lies there helpless.  This sexy sight will drive him absolutely wild.  Untie him and have wild, passionate sex.

The total tease variation
After your man has been tied for awhile and has reached a fever pitch, sit astride his chest with your back to his face.  Firmly grasp the root of his penis with one hand, and, with the other, stroke upward very rapidly and sharply.  Wait for the space of one heartbeat and repeat.  Give him about ten of these and then ten more of the same stroke but all in rapid succession, no pausing in between.  Alternate these two stroking groups (one with pauses and one without) for five to eight minutes or until he screams for mercy.  Finally, give him a spectacular orgasm by way of your hand, mouth , or vagina.  Be sure to untie him quickly after his orgasm so his whole body doesn't get stiff and sore.  Let him lie there and bask in the glory of you.

The finalle
If you are bringing your man to climax by hand, you can simply loosen your pressure and stop pumping while he is actually in the throes of orgasm, or you can try another method that may extend his orgasm briefly; this depends on the individual fella.  Try it and see how your man reacts.  Keep up your stroking as he reaches orgasm, but lightly.  After he's ejaculated, confine your efforts to his scrotum and "G spot".  Lightly pull on the shaft of his penis (stay away from the head) and massage his scrotum and perineum.  This should feel to him as though you're "milking" him for even more juice and more contractions.

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