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Tips for the basic blow job
The Basic Blow Job
Why should you give a man a blow job?
Because they can be seductive. Or powerfully dominant. Or romantic.
First, think about what it is. You're taking the most sensitive part of a man into your mouth. You have absolute control over when and whether he comes. It's an inherently intimate act. One woman asked me if blow jobs ever made me feel slutty, and to that I responded, "Only when I’ve wanted them to." Because they can also be seductive. Or powerfully dominant. Or romantic.
1. Get In the Right Frame of Mind
This might be the most important piece of advice on giving head: Do it because you want to. If you don’t want to, don’t do it. If you feel obliged, if you’re being pressured, if you feel like you need to reciprocate, if you think a blow job will get you something, don’t do it. Do it because you’re turned on, because you want to give your partner pleasure, or because his cock is so deliciously hard that you can’t help yourself. You need to be into it.
Oral sex is amazing, and if you’re feeling inhibited, ask yourself why that is. Is it because you’re inexperienced? That goes away with practice. Is it because you think you’ll be judged? I can promise you that no sane man is going to think negatively of you if you’re giving him head. If he does, he’s struggling with his own issues about sex, and this will cause problems in your future. Is it because you’re worried that it will be too messy? Sex is messy. Sex should be messy. Don’t worry about being messy.
The bottom line is that oral sex is a simple, powerful sex act with incredible range. It can bring you closer as a couple (literally), it can be sweet and gentle, but it can also be the most filthy, carnal sex act in your repertoire. A lot of this depends on your frame of mind, how you feel and want to feel, and how you want to make him feel.
2. Take Your Time
Don’t feel the need to swallow him whole on the first stroke. If you’re inexperienced or nervous, you might have the urge to go all out immediately. Or maybe you’ve seen this in porn. The cock isn’t as sensitive as the clitoris but it still needs to warm up.
I asked a friend if he’d ever had a bad blowjob. “Once,” he said, “when this girl was too aggressive. It was like she was trying to make me come before I even had a chance to put my drink down and it actually hurt. I wanted to stop her but I didn’t want to be rude. I should have just told her to slow down.”
Take your time. Explore the area around his cock, like his hips, his abdomen, his inner thighs. Explore his cock gently with your lips and tongue. Get a feel for its shape and texture. Familiarize yourself with the shaft, the head, the base. Don’t be afraid to use your hands and your fingertips.
3. Basic Mechanics
When you’re ready, wrap one hand around the base of his cock and guide it into your mouth. Think of your hand as an extension. Be sure to generously lubricate the shaft (or the palm of your hand) with spit first.
The basic mechanics of a stroke: tighten your lips around the shaft and use your tongue to stroke the underside. Suck gently, particularly on the out-stroke, while you do this.
4. Control the Pace
Giving head can be powerful, submissive, or sensual. The power dynamic tends to depend on who’s controlling the tempo. If he’s controlling the pace, then it puts you in a more submissive position and maybe that’s your preference. But if you’re starting out or looking to refine your experience, take control of the pace. If he starts to control the blow job, pull back and slow down. If he puts his hands in your hair and starts to force it, gently remove his hands and place them at his sides, though sometimes it’s enough to just touch them. By the way, if he does this, it’s no big deal (it’s actually really hot). Some men
instinctively try to thrust. Just maintain control. You can give up control later, when you’re confident about giving head, and only if that sort of dynamic is huge turn-on to you.
5. Vary Sensation
You make a man come with a consistent, regular rhythm. But do that too soon, or for too long, and he'll go numb. If you interrupt that rhythm, you delay his orgasm but you also keep him sensitive to sensation.
Vary sensation with your mouth and hands. Sensitive zones include the head of his cock, the underside of his shaft, particularly just under the head, and - for many men - the balls. Don’t feel pressure to bring him off. Take your time, enjoy his cock, explore the shaft, stroke his balls, return to head. You can also vary sensation by varying the tension in your tongue. Or just use your hands for a bit, both the fingertips and the palms. Again: lubrication, spit.
6. Make Him Come
It’s easy to make him come - just be consistent and steady. If it’s going on for a while and he still hasn’t come, go back to varying sensation, then try again. Also: sometimes men don’t know whether they should come, so they hold back. Be sure to let him know that it’s okay to orgasm.
7. Choose Your Ending
You can spit, you can swallow, he can pull out and come on your body. There’s no shame in spitting. I’ve done it, friends have done it - just spit in a sink or in a towel. It’s no big deal. Swallowing is nice, and for me it’s been best - seamless - when he comes while he’s deep in my throat. Pulling out can be hot, but be careful about getting it in your eyes. It won’t just burn - your eyes will be a deep crimson for several hours.
8. And Communicate
Don’t be afraid to use your hands and communicate with your partner. Let him know if he can come. If you want him to come a certain way, then tell him. Let him know that you’re enjoying this (because you really, really should only do this if you enjoy it). And, as with all communication, pay attention to his feedback. His body will respond differently to different sensations. If something is really turning him on, keep doing it. If he’s unresponsive, let it go and try something else.
And finally… stroke yourself too. Sure, you’re devoting this time to his orgasm, but like any sex act, it’s a shared experience. The more turned on you are, the better it will be
Why should you give a man a blow job?
Because they can be seductive. Or powerfully dominant. Or romantic.
1. Get In the Right Frame of Mind
This might be the most important piece of advice on giving head: Do it because you want to. If you don’t want to, don’t do it. If you feel obliged, if you’re being pressured, if you feel like you need to reciprocate, if you think a blow job will get you something, don’t do it. Do it because you’re turned on, because you want to give your partner pleasure, or because his cock is so deliciously hard that you can’t help yourself. You need to be into it.
Oral sex is amazing, and if you’re feeling inhibited, ask yourself why that is. Is it because you’re inexperienced? That goes away with practice. Is it because you think you’ll be judged? I can promise you that no sane man is going to think negatively of you if you’re giving him head. If he does, he’s struggling with his own issues about sex, and this will cause problems in your future. Is it because you’re worried that it will be too messy? Sex is messy. Sex should be messy. Don’t worry about being messy.
The bottom line is that oral sex is a simple, powerful sex act with incredible range. It can bring you closer as a couple (literally), it can be sweet and gentle, but it can also be the most filthy, carnal sex act in your repertoire. A lot of this depends on your frame of mind, how you feel and want to feel, and how you want to make him feel.
2. Take Your Time
Don’t feel the need to swallow him whole on the first stroke. If you’re inexperienced or nervous, you might have the urge to go all out immediately. Or maybe you’ve seen this in porn. The cock isn’t as sensitive as the clitoris but it still needs to warm up.
I asked a friend if he’d ever had a bad blowjob. “Once,” he said, “when this girl was too aggressive. It was like she was trying to make me come before I even had a chance to put my drink down and it actually hurt. I wanted to stop her but I didn’t want to be rude. I should have just told her to slow down.”
Take your time. Explore the area around his cock, like his hips, his abdomen, his inner thighs. Explore his cock gently with your lips and tongue. Get a feel for its shape and texture. Familiarize yourself with the shaft, the head, the base. Don’t be afraid to use your hands and your fingertips.
3. Basic Mechanics
When you’re ready, wrap one hand around the base of his cock and guide it into your mouth. Think of your hand as an extension. Be sure to generously lubricate the shaft (or the palm of your hand) with spit first.
The basic mechanics of a stroke: tighten your lips around the shaft and use your tongue to stroke the underside. Suck gently, particularly on the out-stroke, while you do this.
4. Control the Pace
Giving head can be powerful, submissive, or sensual. The power dynamic tends to depend on who’s controlling the tempo. If he’s controlling the pace, then it puts you in a more submissive position and maybe that’s your preference. But if you’re starting out or looking to refine your experience, take control of the pace. If he starts to control the blow job, pull back and slow down. If he puts his hands in your hair and starts to force it, gently remove his hands and place them at his sides, though sometimes it’s enough to just touch them. By the way, if he does this, it’s no big deal (it’s actually really hot). Some men
instinctively try to thrust. Just maintain control. You can give up control later, when you’re confident about giving head, and only if that sort of dynamic is huge turn-on to you.
5. Vary Sensation
You make a man come with a consistent, regular rhythm. But do that too soon, or for too long, and he'll go numb. If you interrupt that rhythm, you delay his orgasm but you also keep him sensitive to sensation.
Vary sensation with your mouth and hands. Sensitive zones include the head of his cock, the underside of his shaft, particularly just under the head, and - for many men - the balls. Don’t feel pressure to bring him off. Take your time, enjoy his cock, explore the shaft, stroke his balls, return to head. You can also vary sensation by varying the tension in your tongue. Or just use your hands for a bit, both the fingertips and the palms. Again: lubrication, spit.
6. Make Him Come
It’s easy to make him come - just be consistent and steady. If it’s going on for a while and he still hasn’t come, go back to varying sensation, then try again. Also: sometimes men don’t know whether they should come, so they hold back. Be sure to let him know that it’s okay to orgasm.
7. Choose Your Ending
You can spit, you can swallow, he can pull out and come on your body. There’s no shame in spitting. I’ve done it, friends have done it - just spit in a sink or in a towel. It’s no big deal. Swallowing is nice, and for me it’s been best - seamless - when he comes while he’s deep in my throat. Pulling out can be hot, but be careful about getting it in your eyes. It won’t just burn - your eyes will be a deep crimson for several hours.
8. And Communicate
Don’t be afraid to use your hands and communicate with your partner. Let him know if he can come. If you want him to come a certain way, then tell him. Let him know that you’re enjoying this (because you really, really should only do this if you enjoy it). And, as with all communication, pay attention to his feedback. His body will respond differently to different sensations. If something is really turning him on, keep doing it. If he’s unresponsive, let it go and try something else.
And finally… stroke yourself too. Sure, you’re devoting this time to his orgasm, but like any sex act, it’s a shared experience. The more turned on you are, the better it will be
Tips on giving a man a hand job
How to stroke your mans cock
Knead his penis between both your hands as though it were a piece of dough
Roll it between your palms
Stroke the underside with your palm as you press his penis against his pelvis
Make two rings with the thumb and index finger of each hand. Place them next to each other in the middle of his shaft. Gently pull outward in both directions at once.
Make two rings (as above), but this time put them both at the base of his penis. Slide your top hand up toward the glans, letting it come off the end completely. Then replace it at the base and repeat the stroke. The "ring" of your other hand should exert pressure downward as the top hand moves upward. Keep repeating these strokes until he begs for mercy.
Roll or thump his penis against your belly, thigh, or face.
Press your breasts together and let him slide his well-oiled penis between them. Occasionally, he can rub it across your nipples. Or he can alternate his thrusting with sucking on your nipples. Or while he's busy sliding between your breasts, you can stimulate your nipples yourself. He'll enjoy watching this. Or, at the end of each stroke, let his penis emerge from between your breasts and into your waiting mouth.
If your man has a high level of appreciation for women's bottoms, he'll no doubt enjoy rubbing his penis between the cheeks of your behind. Lubricate yourself there and present your derriere from a kneeling position or by lying on your stomach with pillows beneath your hips.
Here's one you may like even better than he does. Lie on your back and prop up your pelvis very high with pillows. Invite him to kneel between your legs and move his penis slowly over and between your vaginal lips. No penetration allowed!
The thigh stroke
Lie on your back with pillows beneath your pelvis, and press your thighs tightly together. He should then straddle your legs with his and let his penis hang straight down between your lubricated thighs. He can thrust up and down in this silken vise for awhile and then move in closer so that he rubs against your clitoris and vaginal lips as he goes up and down. A more relaxed position for this juicy little game is one where you lie on your sides, either facing each other or with your back toward him. If you use the position where he comes through from the rear, you can fondle his penis each time it appears in front of you.
His g-spot
For an extra little treat, press on his "G spot" while you're caressing his penis. The area between his anus and scrotum is called the perineum. When you press there, you are stimulating his prostate; for him, this feels similar to the way G-spot stimulation feels for you (woman). Use your forefinger and press firmly and in rhythm while you stroke his penis with your other hand. If it's comfortable, you can curl the other fingers of your pressing hand around the base of his organ, using them to keep the penile skin taught. This sort of handiwork usually makes for a more deeply felt and longer-lasting orgasm.
And don't forget the choker method...... so you can try more than one or two of these in a single sexual session.
The surprise
Surprise him by reaching into his pants and fondling him while he's reading, talkong on the phone, watching TV, cooking, or washing the dishes.
OR
Every man's fantasy is to have an incredibly sensuous dream about a beautiful, lusty lady making love to him and then wake up to find it's actually happening. So sometime in the middle of the night, while he's sleeping soundly, gently and slowly caress his penis; stroke it, squeeze it, roll it between your hands. Try to around his delicate organ without waking him. When he's nice and hard, slide him inside you and make drowsily sweet love to him.
The sensuous gaze and stroke
The first time you see your man after a period of separation (even if it was only this morning when you both left for work), greet him with some bold and sensuous eye/hand coordination. First lock eyes with him, "Look at me darling". Then slither over to him, never taking your eyes from his. Let your eyes tell him you have sex on your mind.
When you reach him, gently take hold of his penis and start massaging. Be sure to keep your eyes on his the whole time-fix him with your burning gaze. Contintue stroking and eventually free his now-hard member from his pants so he can feel skin-to-skin contact. Still keep your eyes locked with his.
It'll be up to you whether to finish this by kneeling down to take him in your mouth, or slipping him into your panty-less vagina while standing there, or backing away and pulling him with your sultry eyes into the bedroom.
The total tease
Start by stroking his penis into a state of throbbing arousal. Then stop and truss him up, spreadeagled on the bed. Don't touch him anymore, but instead fondle your own breasts and vagina as sensuoulsy as you possibly can. Let him watch you writhe, shiver, and moan, finally exploding in a shattering orgasm while he lies there helpless. This sexy sight will drive him absolutely wild. Untie him and have wild, passionate sex.
The total tease variation
After your man has been tied for awhile and has reached a fever pitch, sit astride his chest with your back to his face. Firmly grasp the root of his penis with one hand, and, with the other, stroke upward very rapidly and sharply. Wait for the space of one heartbeat and repeat. Give him about ten of these and then ten more of the same stroke but all in rapid succession, no pausing in between. Alternate these two stroking groups (one with pauses and one without) for five to eight minutes or until he screams for mercy. Finally, give him a spectacular orgasm by way of your hand, mouth , or vagina. Be sure to untie him quickly after his orgasm so his whole body doesn't get stiff and sore. Let him lie there and bask in the glory of you.
The finalle
If you are bringing your man to climax by hand, you can simply loosen your pressure and stop pumping while he is actually in the throes of orgasm, or you can try another method that may extend his orgasm briefly; this depends on the individual fella. Try it and see how your man reacts. Keep up your stroking as he reaches orgasm, but lightly. After he's ejaculated, confine your efforts to his scrotum and "G spot". Lightly pull on the shaft of his penis (stay away from the head) and massage his scrotum and perineum. This should feel to him as though you're "milking" him for even more juice and more contractions.
Knead his penis between both your hands as though it were a piece of dough
Roll it between your palms
Stroke the underside with your palm as you press his penis against his pelvis
Make two rings with the thumb and index finger of each hand. Place them next to each other in the middle of his shaft. Gently pull outward in both directions at once.
Make two rings (as above), but this time put them both at the base of his penis. Slide your top hand up toward the glans, letting it come off the end completely. Then replace it at the base and repeat the stroke. The "ring" of your other hand should exert pressure downward as the top hand moves upward. Keep repeating these strokes until he begs for mercy.
Roll or thump his penis against your belly, thigh, or face.
Press your breasts together and let him slide his well-oiled penis between them. Occasionally, he can rub it across your nipples. Or he can alternate his thrusting with sucking on your nipples. Or while he's busy sliding between your breasts, you can stimulate your nipples yourself. He'll enjoy watching this. Or, at the end of each stroke, let his penis emerge from between your breasts and into your waiting mouth.
If your man has a high level of appreciation for women's bottoms, he'll no doubt enjoy rubbing his penis between the cheeks of your behind. Lubricate yourself there and present your derriere from a kneeling position or by lying on your stomach with pillows beneath your hips.
Here's one you may like even better than he does. Lie on your back and prop up your pelvis very high with pillows. Invite him to kneel between your legs and move his penis slowly over and between your vaginal lips. No penetration allowed!
The thigh stroke
Lie on your back with pillows beneath your pelvis, and press your thighs tightly together. He should then straddle your legs with his and let his penis hang straight down between your lubricated thighs. He can thrust up and down in this silken vise for awhile and then move in closer so that he rubs against your clitoris and vaginal lips as he goes up and down. A more relaxed position for this juicy little game is one where you lie on your sides, either facing each other or with your back toward him. If you use the position where he comes through from the rear, you can fondle his penis each time it appears in front of you.
His g-spot
For an extra little treat, press on his "G spot" while you're caressing his penis. The area between his anus and scrotum is called the perineum. When you press there, you are stimulating his prostate; for him, this feels similar to the way G-spot stimulation feels for you (woman). Use your forefinger and press firmly and in rhythm while you stroke his penis with your other hand. If it's comfortable, you can curl the other fingers of your pressing hand around the base of his organ, using them to keep the penile skin taught. This sort of handiwork usually makes for a more deeply felt and longer-lasting orgasm.
And don't forget the choker method...... so you can try more than one or two of these in a single sexual session.
The surprise
Surprise him by reaching into his pants and fondling him while he's reading, talkong on the phone, watching TV, cooking, or washing the dishes.
OR
Every man's fantasy is to have an incredibly sensuous dream about a beautiful, lusty lady making love to him and then wake up to find it's actually happening. So sometime in the middle of the night, while he's sleeping soundly, gently and slowly caress his penis; stroke it, squeeze it, roll it between your hands. Try to around his delicate organ without waking him. When he's nice and hard, slide him inside you and make drowsily sweet love to him.
The sensuous gaze and stroke
The first time you see your man after a period of separation (even if it was only this morning when you both left for work), greet him with some bold and sensuous eye/hand coordination. First lock eyes with him, "Look at me darling". Then slither over to him, never taking your eyes from his. Let your eyes tell him you have sex on your mind.
When you reach him, gently take hold of his penis and start massaging. Be sure to keep your eyes on his the whole time-fix him with your burning gaze. Contintue stroking and eventually free his now-hard member from his pants so he can feel skin-to-skin contact. Still keep your eyes locked with his.
It'll be up to you whether to finish this by kneeling down to take him in your mouth, or slipping him into your panty-less vagina while standing there, or backing away and pulling him with your sultry eyes into the bedroom.
The total tease
Start by stroking his penis into a state of throbbing arousal. Then stop and truss him up, spreadeagled on the bed. Don't touch him anymore, but instead fondle your own breasts and vagina as sensuoulsy as you possibly can. Let him watch you writhe, shiver, and moan, finally exploding in a shattering orgasm while he lies there helpless. This sexy sight will drive him absolutely wild. Untie him and have wild, passionate sex.
The total tease variation
After your man has been tied for awhile and has reached a fever pitch, sit astride his chest with your back to his face. Firmly grasp the root of his penis with one hand, and, with the other, stroke upward very rapidly and sharply. Wait for the space of one heartbeat and repeat. Give him about ten of these and then ten more of the same stroke but all in rapid succession, no pausing in between. Alternate these two stroking groups (one with pauses and one without) for five to eight minutes or until he screams for mercy. Finally, give him a spectacular orgasm by way of your hand, mouth , or vagina. Be sure to untie him quickly after his orgasm so his whole body doesn't get stiff and sore. Let him lie there and bask in the glory of you.
The finalle
If you are bringing your man to climax by hand, you can simply loosen your pressure and stop pumping while he is actually in the throes of orgasm, or you can try another method that may extend his orgasm briefly; this depends on the individual fella. Try it and see how your man reacts. Keep up your stroking as he reaches orgasm, but lightly. After he's ejaculated, confine your efforts to his scrotum and "G spot". Lightly pull on the shaft of his penis (stay away from the head) and massage his scrotum and perineum. This should feel to him as though you're "milking" him for even more juice and more contractions.
Why women need to explore their sexaul fantasies
Sexual Fantasies
Fantasies! We all have them. We always have. When we were young, we acted them out. We took our toy soldiers and cars and dolls and whatever and submerged ourselves into our fantasy world. We weren't little kids when we played, at least not in our own minds. We were adults doing adult things: driving cars, commanding armies, having tea parties and setting up house. We weren't self conscious about it. We weren't afraid to do it. We had fun. We enjoyed ourselves. We were happy.
We got older and our fantasies changed. We were sports stars and rock stars and movies stars. We tried to dress the part and walk the walk and talk the talk. Algebra homework and cleaning our rooms weren't part of the fantasy and so we ignored them as best we could. We were cool and in charge and we ruled the world, at least in our minds. That's when sex entered our lives. It was in our reach now and felt so good and it was what we lived for. We tried to live out those fantasies as well in the back seats of our cars or the bedroom when the parents were out. And no matter how successful we were, we always wanted more.
We got older still. We finished school and married and found ourselves living a new life, a life where we thought we could do anything. It was neat to be an adult, to make our own decisions and to sleep beside someone every night. But the novelty wore off and we found that there was nothing new any more. We worried about taxes and 401k's and saving for the kids' education. We worked all day and came home tired to watch the TV all night and each day was the same. We talked about how we would retire and move to Florida and wear ugly clothes and wait to die. What fantasies we still had, we kept stashed away in our minds, letting them sneak out into our daydreams at our desks or at night, in the dark, just before sleep came.
So what happened? Why did we get this way? When did we let the joy slip away? It happened because we let go of our fantasies. We decided that we couldn't pursue them anymore. We were adults and would act like adults and put away the things of childhood. But why? Embarrassment? Laziness? Some unwritten rule that says we cannot act like children and enjoy life?
You can make your life better. Follow your dreams. Give in to your fantasies. What do you want? What would make you happy, excite you, give you pleasure?
It could be something simple: write a book, take up painting, run a marathon. You could go dancing or rock climbing or take pictures of birds or flowers or whatever else catches your fancy. You can do what you want. It's your choice.
Do you want something a little spicy? Get a tattoo or a piercing. It's your body after all. If it pleases you, then why not. No one else has to know about the tattoo or the piercing either if you choose.
Want to try something new in bed? Talk to your mate. Don't say you can't. You love him. You want to spend your life with him, in good times and bad. The worse that can happen is for him to say no. Remember, your mate has fantasies too. You may like them.. The only way to find out is to talk honestly.
No mate? No problem. Want to post a picture on the internet? You don't have to show your face. Only you will know who it is. Sex with a member of the same sex? You've wondered about it, thought about it, pictured it in your mind. The experts say that almost everyone has and a lot have tried it. Don't you want to know what it is like? Don't you want to try it at least once in your life?
Think of all the things that you have ever fantasized about, all the things that have excited you, the sights and the stories that made you wish you were someone else, someone more daring, someone willing to break the rules. Think about the things that you have always wanted, the things that creep into you mind in the dark, the things that make you tingle with excitement. You can do them you know. Let go of your fears. Let go of your embarrassment. Let go of other people's rules. Decide what you want, what will give you pleasure, what will excite you. And go for it.
Fantasies! We all have them. We always have. When we were young, we acted them out. We took our toy soldiers and cars and dolls and whatever and submerged ourselves into our fantasy world. We weren't little kids when we played, at least not in our own minds. We were adults doing adult things: driving cars, commanding armies, having tea parties and setting up house. We weren't self conscious about it. We weren't afraid to do it. We had fun. We enjoyed ourselves. We were happy.
We got older and our fantasies changed. We were sports stars and rock stars and movies stars. We tried to dress the part and walk the walk and talk the talk. Algebra homework and cleaning our rooms weren't part of the fantasy and so we ignored them as best we could. We were cool and in charge and we ruled the world, at least in our minds. That's when sex entered our lives. It was in our reach now and felt so good and it was what we lived for. We tried to live out those fantasies as well in the back seats of our cars or the bedroom when the parents were out. And no matter how successful we were, we always wanted more.
We got older still. We finished school and married and found ourselves living a new life, a life where we thought we could do anything. It was neat to be an adult, to make our own decisions and to sleep beside someone every night. But the novelty wore off and we found that there was nothing new any more. We worried about taxes and 401k's and saving for the kids' education. We worked all day and came home tired to watch the TV all night and each day was the same. We talked about how we would retire and move to Florida and wear ugly clothes and wait to die. What fantasies we still had, we kept stashed away in our minds, letting them sneak out into our daydreams at our desks or at night, in the dark, just before sleep came.
So what happened? Why did we get this way? When did we let the joy slip away? It happened because we let go of our fantasies. We decided that we couldn't pursue them anymore. We were adults and would act like adults and put away the things of childhood. But why? Embarrassment? Laziness? Some unwritten rule that says we cannot act like children and enjoy life?
You can make your life better. Follow your dreams. Give in to your fantasies. What do you want? What would make you happy, excite you, give you pleasure?
It could be something simple: write a book, take up painting, run a marathon. You could go dancing or rock climbing or take pictures of birds or flowers or whatever else catches your fancy. You can do what you want. It's your choice.
Do you want something a little spicy? Get a tattoo or a piercing. It's your body after all. If it pleases you, then why not. No one else has to know about the tattoo or the piercing either if you choose.
Want to try something new in bed? Talk to your mate. Don't say you can't. You love him. You want to spend your life with him, in good times and bad. The worse that can happen is for him to say no. Remember, your mate has fantasies too. You may like them.. The only way to find out is to talk honestly.
No mate? No problem. Want to post a picture on the internet? You don't have to show your face. Only you will know who it is. Sex with a member of the same sex? You've wondered about it, thought about it, pictured it in your mind. The experts say that almost everyone has and a lot have tried it. Don't you want to know what it is like? Don't you want to try it at least once in your life?
Think of all the things that you have ever fantasized about, all the things that have excited you, the sights and the stories that made you wish you were someone else, someone more daring, someone willing to break the rules. Think about the things that you have always wanted, the things that creep into you mind in the dark, the things that make you tingle with excitement. You can do them you know. Let go of your fears. Let go of your embarrassment. Let go of other people's rules. Decide what you want, what will give you pleasure, what will excite you. And go for it.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Should women meet men online? Read her story
The sound of your voice on the phone makes me think your need is as great as mine. We've been meeting like this for months, but I still never know if you will be hot or cold. I do know you will always take my breath away. A cold night with you is hotter than I ever knew with anyone else.
It took us about three months to work up to meeting in person. There were notes and letters. There were long phone calls and flowers. Finally, when you knew I was ready and I couldn't wait any longer, we started meeting regularly. Or at least whenever you asked. We met in hotels - one hotel - The Sienna. We both had housemates and really didn't want to get them involved in our love life.
As my arms go around you - around your waist and up your back - you feel charged with tension. Just a little dangerous. An animal hunting its prey is loose, and ready to spring. I have always thought of you that way. But tonight, you are more tightly sprung than usual and looking to finish what you started. The tension is heightened by your effort to control yourself. I know before our caress ends, I'm in for a wild ride tonight.
I shuddered as your hands go down my back and moved across my ass. Then you tease them across my thighs and up to my waist. You push me against the wall and move your hands to my breasts. The heat from your hands is cool compared to the torch you light inside me. As you pinch my nipples through my clothes, like a strike of lightening, the heat finds a conduit and I gasp from the shock.
And that's enough. Like the wolf that finds the weakest animal and runs it to ground - as my gasp relinquishes control to you - you feel the power you have over me. You loose a little control. You pull both my hands above my head. You hold them with one hand. When you pop the first button off my blouse, the heat from within melts my knees and they buckle. You hold me fast and finish the blouse and the bra. Your hand runs down my torso and then down to the bottom of my skirt. You torture me with a slow glide up my thigh and a teasing dance around my clit. Then you remove your hand and I groan in frustration. You take a hand in each of your hands and move to my sides, as you lower my hands, you lower your head and my cunt is electric with anticipation.
When your tongue touches me I try to grind against your face. But this is just a tease. This is just the torture you know will remove any stray thoughts and focus me on sex. You move your head up, ignoring my apparent protests. With my hands above my head again, you are moving your free hand down. When you touch my lips, then press fingers onto my clit, your mouth goes to my rigid nipples, I buck and arch and cum in your hand. I bite into your shoulder to hold back the scream.
As I fall against you, you capture my mouth and ravage it. My mind is spinning. But I know I want more. I know I will be the slut you want me to be. I know I want you to fill me, to feel you on me, in me. To taste your skin, to feed on your lust. I want you to tease me, spank me and pull the passion from me. Fleetingly I wonder if I have asked for more than you want to give. But you know I will take what you give and won't ask for more.
Just for these stolen moments - we are master and slave yet both slaves to our passions.
As your kiss ends, and leaves me breathless, I still manage to say I want you inside me. After I cum, my cunt is tight and the thought of your glorious head sliding slowly inside and then pounding me until I am writhing and screaming your name, has me lightheaded. I am reaching the point of no return as you continue to kiss my neck and breasts. You've let go of my hands and now they have a mind of their own. Actually my body is of one mind - that of getting you to fuck my brains out.
After a firm fast inspection of all the equipment through your pants, I get your pants off with an amazing show of agility. Once my hands feel your skin, you are the center of my quickly spinning universe. I have both hands on you now, one stroking your cock the other feeling around and under and over. I let go for a minute to revel in your chest. I run my hands up your torso and thru your chest hair. As my hand go south I rub my breasts against your chest and slide my wet pussy up and down your thigh. Then I slide down your thigh and onto my knees.
You are now just a dick to me. The rest of you is just there to hold it at a convenient height. Making love to your dick is all there is in this moment. I slowly run it across my lips and cheeks, down my neck and between my breasts. The only time I wish my breasts were bigger is when I have your rod between then. I wish I could oil then down and squeeze you between them until your knees buckled. But for now, I have you back at my mouth and I am licking every rigid inch.
After lingering around the head I slip you in my mouth and you can hear me moan - it sounds more like a purr with you in my mouth. My hands are on your buns and I am sucking and moving and teasing with my tongue. Its all glorious sensation to me, but for you it's a ride that has a climax. With your mood and my appetite this evening, I expect you to cum in my mouth. But you pull out and push me over to the bed. I fall down on my back. You quickly roll me over and let me know you have something else in mind. You can tell by my groans that there is no where I'd rather be.
The feel as you enter me from behind, makes me very glad to be a women. And I think to tell you that, but it come out as, "Fuck me, oh God, pound me hard". And you do and do and do. And you cum and we both fall down on the bed. Then you hold me against you, caress me. You kiss my neck and breasts and with one deft hand bring me to an earth shattering climax.
The End
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It took us about three months to work up to meeting in person. There were notes and letters. There were long phone calls and flowers. Finally, when you knew I was ready and I couldn't wait any longer, we started meeting regularly. Or at least whenever you asked. We met in hotels - one hotel - The Sienna. We both had housemates and really didn't want to get them involved in our love life.
As my arms go around you - around your waist and up your back - you feel charged with tension. Just a little dangerous. An animal hunting its prey is loose, and ready to spring. I have always thought of you that way. But tonight, you are more tightly sprung than usual and looking to finish what you started. The tension is heightened by your effort to control yourself. I know before our caress ends, I'm in for a wild ride tonight.
And that's enough. Like the wolf that finds the weakest animal and runs it to ground - as my gasp relinquishes control to you - you feel the power you have over me. You loose a little control. You pull both my hands above my head. You hold them with one hand. When you pop the first button off my blouse, the heat from within melts my knees and they buckle. You hold me fast and finish the blouse and the bra. Your hand runs down my torso and then down to the bottom of my skirt. You torture me with a slow glide up my thigh and a teasing dance around my clit. Then you remove your hand and I groan in frustration. You take a hand in each of your hands and move to my sides, as you lower my hands, you lower your head and my cunt is electric with anticipation.
When your tongue touches me I try to grind against your face. But this is just a tease. This is just the torture you know will remove any stray thoughts and focus me on sex. You move your head up, ignoring my apparent protests. With my hands above my head again, you are moving your free hand down. When you touch my lips, then press fingers onto my clit, your mouth goes to my rigid nipples, I buck and arch and cum in your hand. I bite into your shoulder to hold back the scream.
As I fall against you, you capture my mouth and ravage it. My mind is spinning. But I know I want more. I know I will be the slut you want me to be. I know I want you to fill me, to feel you on me, in me. To taste your skin, to feed on your lust. I want you to tease me, spank me and pull the passion from me. Fleetingly I wonder if I have asked for more than you want to give. But you know I will take what you give and won't ask for more.
Just for these stolen moments - we are master and slave yet both slaves to our passions.
As your kiss ends, and leaves me breathless, I still manage to say I want you inside me. After I cum, my cunt is tight and the thought of your glorious head sliding slowly inside and then pounding me until I am writhing and screaming your name, has me lightheaded. I am reaching the point of no return as you continue to kiss my neck and breasts. You've let go of my hands and now they have a mind of their own. Actually my body is of one mind - that of getting you to fuck my brains out.
After a firm fast inspection of all the equipment through your pants, I get your pants off with an amazing show of agility. Once my hands feel your skin, you are the center of my quickly spinning universe. I have both hands on you now, one stroking your cock the other feeling around and under and over. I let go for a minute to revel in your chest. I run my hands up your torso and thru your chest hair. As my hand go south I rub my breasts against your chest and slide my wet pussy up and down your thigh. Then I slide down your thigh and onto my knees.
You are now just a dick to me. The rest of you is just there to hold it at a convenient height. Making love to your dick is all there is in this moment. I slowly run it across my lips and cheeks, down my neck and between my breasts. The only time I wish my breasts were bigger is when I have your rod between then. I wish I could oil then down and squeeze you between them until your knees buckled. But for now, I have you back at my mouth and I am licking every rigid inch.
After lingering around the head I slip you in my mouth and you can hear me moan - it sounds more like a purr with you in my mouth. My hands are on your buns and I am sucking and moving and teasing with my tongue. Its all glorious sensation to me, but for you it's a ride that has a climax. With your mood and my appetite this evening, I expect you to cum in my mouth. But you pull out and push me over to the bed. I fall down on my back. You quickly roll me over and let me know you have something else in mind. You can tell by my groans that there is no where I'd rather be.
The feel as you enter me from behind, makes me very glad to be a women. And I think to tell you that, but it come out as, "Fuck me, oh God, pound me hard". And you do and do and do. And you cum and we both fall down on the bed. Then you hold me against you, caress me. You kiss my neck and breasts and with one deft hand bring me to an earth shattering climax.
The End
Ladies you can chat flirt and meet men on line. Here's a safe place to meet guys discreetly. Fling for women
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